For a positive relationship with my child

 
I contribute to the positive development of my child in his or her sport when… I hinder the development of my child in his or her sport when…
    • I encourage my child in a positive and respectful manner.
    • I encourage my child regardless of victory or defeat.
    • I encourage my child to respect his or her opponents and the other teams.
    • I encourage my child to practice the sport for himself or herself and for his or her own fun.
    • I accept my child’s limits.
    • I care for my child’s well-being by listening to his or her needs, concerns and worries.
    • I encourage my child to develop his or her skills and sportsmanship.
    • I recognize my child’s efforts.
    • I show my child that all that matters is victory.
    • I use abusive language and lack respect toward others.
    • I push, shake or hit my child (with my fists, with my feet or even with sports equipment) when he or she does not perform well.
    • I project disproportionate ambitions on my child.
    • I encourage my child to tolerate physical (blows) and psychological (insults) violence to develop his or her mental strength.
    • I express or show my disappointment about his or her athletic performance.
    • I keep my child from exposing abuse or violence.